.In the past three years, i’ve had a horrible time with my physical beauty, or lack thereof.. Whatever physical beauty i had has gone to hell. Friends have turned against me, and it seems like the whole world is my enemy. I’ve gone in for two different cosmetic treatments to try to better myself. One is called Restylane, which removes lines from the sides of the mouth area. That was 0, and it didn’t even fix the problem. Then recently, i did a 0 microdermabrasion package to remove these things under my eyes called "fat pads." It didn’t do the trick so far. I have 3 more treatments to go for the microdermabrasion, but i’ve been told by a dermatologist that it’s a waste of money even trying to remove fat pads by any other way besides surgery. I am severly depressed! Those who say that beauty is only skin deep is WRONG! Now i know what the elephant man felt like. This is torture! How the hell do i improve my looks? I HATE MY LIFE!
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Smile! Making the effort to smile every once in a while will make you feel better about yourself, and make others feel positive. You can even practice smiling in the mirror–it’ll be a great start to your day and set you off in the right mood. You never know who is appreciating your smile!
Understand the value of inner beauty. There are "pretty" people in this world, and after talking to a few of them, you can begin to think that they aren’t so pretty. A bad attitude towards others can make you seem really ugly inside, and make people stop paying attention to who you are on the outside. So remember that all the makeup in the world won’t help if you are unhappy and nasty. Respect yourself, respect others and you will feel great.
Feel good about yourself. When you feel good, you look good. People are attracted to and feel comfortable with people who respect themselves. Liking yourself and respecting yourself doesn’t mean you are conceited, it just shows others that you care about your body. A fun, light personality makes everyone comfortable. Be yourself, be warm to others, and feel great. Soon enough, others are bound to notice.
Look at yourself in the mirror. What are your best features? Your legs? Your hair? Your mouth? Your shoulders? Now, think of ways you can enhance those features. For example, if you have great hair, wash it every other day to make it shinier. For long legs, make sure you shave everday, so you can show off those legs in mini skirts or cool shorts (if the weather allows). For great shoulders or bone structure, you can wear shirts that show off those things, like halter tops.
If you’re happy inside, it’ll show up on the outside. Do things you enjoy — go to a concert, wear purple shoes, play with puppies, whatever floats your boat!
Confidence is one of the sexiest things in the world. Embolden yourself! Keep your posture straight and your head up — this creates the image that you know exactly who you are, what you want, and where you’re going. Wear a different shade of eyeshadow. Re-decorate your room. Strike up conversations with strangers. Be bold, but don’t be careless about it — know your limits. Know that you are beautiful in your very own unique way, and that being pretty does not have to mean looking like everyone else.
Remember beauty is subjective. Even if most of the world thinks you’re ugly, if you’re at least lucky, someone might think you’re attractive. Don’t miss your chance to enjoy that person’s attraction. So if you’re naturally not beautiful, which you probably aren’t, then makeup won’t really help; it will only make the situation worse because it makes you look like everyone else.
don’t be so depressed ,,,,,,,,,cheer up ….
It doesn’t matter what you do with cuz your mind is broken and nobody will like you anyway with a stretched looking face. You should have worked on being a better person instead of trying to look good all the time.
Well I think your great.
first love urself rather than hate. beauty is just for a while and as ull grow itll fade away . not only u but everyone. my remedy is
try to drink lots of water and do yoga exercises to improve blood circultion that will in turn make ur skin look radiant.
good luck and tc
Er, I kinda agree with that "ITS ME" guy. I like women for who they are, not how they look. But If I like how they are, AND how they look. Bonus points!
Yet, my girlfriend right now doesn’t look too good, nor too bad, I still love her! <3
i was angery that i had no shoes until i saw a man that had no feet
there so many persons in the world crying to get food, dress, shelter, jobs etc. urs might be so silly for them!! be happy with watever god gave to u. otherwise he may taken bak watever ur having.
don’t be so shallow and self-centered,there’s people in Africa without proper drinking water,you know you could have spent your money on something that really makes a difference…….people remember people for what they did not what they looked like…………….bitch!!!
I suggest you focus on your personality first. I’m sure you don’t look that horrible and hopefully you’ll find your answers but until then keep a positive attitude, get plenty of sleep and exercise eat healthy and drink lots of water. And you don’t need friends who turn against you. Besides you probably have other talents.
Honey, you should find a boyfriend.
remember, confidence makes you beautiful!